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  • Nesting Place
    highly popular website hosted by LFC person whose motto is: "It doesn't have to be perfect to be beautiful."
  • wideopenspaces
    dude at Lake Forest radically collided with grace, and playing that out
  • AboveTheLine
    Culture, the arts and theology from an orthodox Christian worldview. Personal blog by Huntley Paton, Lake Forest partner who is a journalist.
  • TheWatsonUnit
    family just adopted 2yr old twins from Haiti
  • FritzFiles
    personal blog of a mom/wife/Jesus follower
  • From NC to Ukraine
    journal of Michelle McConnell about family's adoption journey
  • Purple Pilgrim
    by Jaye Soss, originally begun for her tues nite women's group

July 03, 2009

From Corinne Kologe, guest blogger

Well, I'm not going to admit to being "gray" - just hits too close to home for me!  However, I will say it was refreshing to this woman, well into her 50s, to be in a crowd that was full of people in all age ranges, and to be learning from leaders who have been spiritually formative to me for years. Don't get us wrong though, this was a conference [Renovare Conference] for all ages.  I sat next to a young woman in one of my breakout sessions who is still in college and was loving every moment of soaking in the teaching and the fellowship with others on "The Jesus Way".

We got to slow our pace, see through a lens that is different from most of the conferences I've attended in the past and be refreshed by the depth and truth of the message and the full out focus on God the Father and His holiness, Jesus the God/man that took on the flesh and pain of humanity to show us the Way, and on the Holy Spirit who leads us into that Way and resides in us to give us counsel, and wisdom, and power for living this Way in this world.  We worshipped in different styles from ancient and traditional to rock and roll.  Because of the focus on coming into the presence of our Holy God, every style was beautiful and refreshing.

It was inspiring to see these "spiritual giants" (John Ortberg, Richard Foster, Dallas Willard, Eugene Peterson) and hear clearly: these are flawed, ordinary men who've done extraordinary things and had extraordinary influence for the Lord in their time because they have been faithful and obedient.  They are riddled with the same insecurities, the same sin-tendencies that you and I have.

My heart for myself and for our church?  To grow in this Jesus Way.  It's not complicated, but it is hard.  It's hard to make the quiet, inward, choices daily that grow us in The Way, when all of the world around us shouts so insistently that there are many ways, that the way to happiness and fulfillment is fast, can be purchased, or earned.  I look forward to seeing what the Lord does in us and through us as we grow in our desire and our practice of  prayer, solitude, soaking in the Word, encouraging one another in the disciplines, and then go out as Christ into the world, changed from the inside out, to serve and love as people aware of our great need for Jesus and desiring to share the "ministry of reconciliation" with those in our immediate circles and to those in places of despair and great need.

Love being on the Jesus Way with you!  I need you!  I am as easily distracted and swayed by way of this world as anyone.  God gave us community to encourage one another!  It's an exciting journey, let's help each other on The Way. 

Corinne Kologe
Connections Ministry
Lake Forest Church

July 01, 2009

From Mitch White, guest blogger

I'm not purple-I'm gray!

I just turned 41 but my hair says I'm closer to 50.  My dad turned gray early and I'm well on my way.  But now I'm even more determined to never color it.  Why?  Because I just spent 4 days in San Antonio with gray haired mentors that have shaped my life for the past 25 years.

Eugene I just returned from the Renovare Conference and the average age of the main speakers had to be 65.  Eugene Peterson (pictured with me here), Dallas Willard, Richard Foster, and John Ortberg (who is only 54 and brought the average age way down); all men whose writings have shaped my life.  To sit under their wisdom and call to Spiritual Transformation was life giving.

I found out again that "purple" is not a new thing - just new to us.  Here were 4 men: a Presbyterian, a Southern Baptist, a Quaker and a Ordained Baptist pastoring a Presbyterian church.  Yet, they know ultimately, they simply love God and are in on what he is doing through his son Jesus.  For years, their relationship with Jesus has helped them to reach others without their rock being their denominational color.  Renovare 018

But what I loved most was I didn't even see "purple"--I only saw "Gray"!

Most conferences I'm around are high energy, a call to powerful leadership, and equipping with new skills to take the Church to the next stage.  They are fed on new ideas, creativity and fast pace.  It's put on and driven by next generation leaders and I greatly appreciate it!  But boy, how refreshing it was to sit in the simple, the slow, the quiet, the wisdom of men that have served Jesus for years.  To gleam from all their years of ministry and leading others and to find that it is simple; not complex.  I love the wisdom of the Gray!  I love being Gray!

I leave you with Peterson's words that continue to soak in: "The Jesus Way is an Ordinary Way.  The Easy Part: this is an ordinary, well-worn path that millions have walked.  I don't have to be a super-athlete, a mountain climber.  I can do this.  [But here's the flip-side.] The Hard Part: 'Ordinary' is boring.  I'd like something that gives me an edge on the common humdrum of life.  A little excitement, the spice of entertainment. The 'ordinary' has a way of feeding consumerism."

Mitch White
Discipleship Pastor
Lake Forest Church

June 26, 2009

Denominations Rock!

I'm at our annual denominational meeting.  The people rock.  The content of the teaching rocks.  The business sessions - boring.  So should we follow the American trend of 'non-denominational,' because each church/pastor knows best?  Should we follow the emerging church/hip church trend to be 'independent' so we are free of the burden of churches who don't move as fast as we do?  NO.  In circles of discussion with my church planting, or emerging, or fundamentalist, or cutting edge friends, I often find myself a lone voice for the value of Biblical connectionalism (in the form of denominationalism).  When our mother church, Forest Hill, announced they were about to leave the EPC and go independent, I urged my friends there, including the Senior Pastor, not to do such an unwise and unbiblical thing (not to leave the EPC, but to become 'independent' which is an oxymoron in Christianity when all churches are part of the wider Body of Christ). 

So, to indugle in this geeky, very important crusade of mine, I pass along the paper our denomination just wrote and approved on the 'why' of being part of a denomination today.  It's long, but very very good if you care about church leadership and faithfulness from generation to generation.  And if you go to LFC and ever get asked by your holier, more independent-than-thou friends 'how come you're in some boring, irrelevant, hocus pocus denomination.'  I want you to have a good-no a great- answer.  Here we go - enjoy:

STATEMENT OF BENEFITS OF BEING IN THE EPC

In today’s world many people question the value of denominations and the Biblical basis of denominations. In the eyes of many they are often arcane, bureaucratically enmeshed, and ineffective. The blunt truth is that in many instances the criticisms are more than fair. Yet, while bad denominations are a bad idea, we also believe that there is such a thing as a Biblical, effective, and relevant denomination. In short, we think that in God’s economy we have the ability – as local churches and leaders – to make each other better as we work together. Indeed, we think that many instinctively grasp the value of being a part of a dynamic, well grounded, goal oriented, and forward looking organization. At the heart of it, we think many intuitively grasp this because God has called us to be a part of a body larger than ourselves. Indeed, this is our Biblical conviction.

Below are a basic statement of our convictions about the value, importance, and imperative of being an active part of a Biblical denomination such as the EPC. We believe:

1. Working together to fulfill the Great Commission matters:

There are moments in ministry, such as foreign and domestic missions, or national disaster, when linking together with other churches across a national spectrum allows us to take on still larger challenges. Historically the EPC has done this through Argentine outreach, church planting, establishing institutions for training leaders such as the Jumper Center in Brazil, Muslim missions, and national disaster such as Katrina Relief.

2. Denominational standards for professionally trained, regionally ordained and nationally recognized ministers matter:

In today’s world many do little more than ordain themselves, or are ordained by the immediate group of people whom they lead. While we affirm personal calling and the importance of a local body affirming that calling, we view the office of a Presbyterian Teaching Elder as a profession as well as a calling and hold to the historic Presbyterian value of an educated ministry. By ordaining through the Presbytery and upholding standards of ordination nationally through the General Assembly, our Teaching Elders can legitimately claim that they are professionally trained, regionally ordained and nationally recognized. We believe that challenges of ministry in our culture demand no less than this and that Pastors are more fully positioned to carry out their office when the wider church ordains them.

3. Real networking, training and equipping with like-minded churches and leaders matters:

We affirm the value of many of the equipping organizations of which local EPC a may be members. That said, we believe there is a unique benefit in networking and learning with (and from) those churches who share our particular beliefs and philosophy of ministry. We seem to have a unique potential to learn and grow with those churches and leaders with whom we are already connected and who share our most basic convictions. While we are grateful for the increasing emphasis on training and networking within the EPC, we believe that EPC should set as a goal becoming a first class equipping and training organization, unique in that we do this as a denomination.

4. Real accountability matters:

The history of the church makes it clear that accountability – doctrinal, ethical, and ministry practice as expressed through evangelism and discipleship – matters. In too many situations pastors, leaders, or churches are able to evade the responsibilities of their office or calling as a community by being accountable only to those whom they lead or to themselves. Others claim an accountability which has no real basis in vows or authoritative church structure. Our conviction is that Scriptural accountability is a gift that God gives to the individual, the local church, and the wider church. We believe that ultimately this accountability must be grounded in loving relationships but move beyond this to include truly authoritative structure. We believe that this accountability is vital to the church’s integrity and witness in the world.

5. Real relationships outside your local church matter:

We believe that a Scriptural commitment to the unity of the church necessarily places us in relationships beyond our local church. Some of this we’ve covered above, in the commitment to real accountability and ordination standards. Some of it we’ve covered above in our beliefs about networking and learning both together and from one another. Our conviction is that unless we formally commit to these things, the press of ministry and life is such that we are increasingly likely to isolate from other churches and leaders. This isolation leaves us building only on our own ideas, resources, and prayers. It is a prescription not for ministry strength but rather ministry weakness.

We are Presbyterians because of Scriptural conviction, believing that God Himself has called us into community. We believe that in structured community there is great strength and that ultimately to “submit to one another” is integral to the authentic community God calls us to be.

Are the  EPC office, committee structure, and EPC meeting itself structured in the most effective and efficient way to meet our mission and goals? To be a dynamic organization, we need to do a thorough evaluation of how we’re allocating resources in the EPC office. Perhaps we should have zero-based organizational planning?

Conclusion:

For some, the work of building and rebuilding an effective denomination is a waste of time. They don’t think it can happen or that it’s a worthwhile goal. It’s our commitment to Scripture which forces us to disagree. In the New Testament church we see congregations and leaders held together in a web of mutual relationship, teamwork and accountability. The apostles exercised real church authority, not only over individuals but congregations and especially church leaders. Mere networks, no matter how helpful, have no mechanism for church authority. In the same manner, purely congregational church government has no capacity to hold churches as a whole or their leaders accountable to those outside of themselves. In essence, they are closed systems, and both secular and sacred history teach us of the inadvisability of no accountability outside of ourselves.

Our vision is for real accountability – doctrinal, ethical, ministry productivity – partnered with a) real relationships, b) real networking, and c) training/equipping with excellence. We believe this is the best possible world and while we understand why many would choose to set their sights lower – this is no easy task – we think that Biblical Presbyterianism calls us to nothing less than this.

The problem is not that we have been too “Presbyterian” or “denominational”. The problem is that we have degenerated from what our system could be – and at times has produced – into a cheapened form of Presbyterianism which is either a) merely bureaucratic or b) merely autocratic. We propose something much richer, challenging, and filled with much greater potential. Churches and leaders bound together in real relationship, working together and pooling resources so as to a) make each other better in ministry practice, b) experience authentic relationship so as to genuinely encourage one another, and c) hold each other accountable for doctrine, ethics, and ministry effectiveness.

We believe the resources exist already to, at a minimum, move us significantly in this direction. We also believe that many in our denomination intuitively sense the possibilities and are hoping for real change in this direction. We also believe that our steps towards this end include: 1) stating our mission and goals clearly and gaining denominational buy-in and 2) reorganizing the EPC Office in order to support this greatly sharpened vision of denominational purpose and calling.

June 24, 2009

Modern Prophet for Justice

Today I heard from a prophet and saint in our own time.  Dr. John Perkins was an African American pastor in Mississippi during the 1960's.  Johnperkins He was jailed and beaten for daring to speak up for civil rights.  His life story since then has been one of forgiveness of his oppressors(because of Jesus), and reconciliation (because Jesus gave his followers a 'ministry of reconciliation' 2 Corinthians 5:18).  I read his autobiography, Let Justice Roll Down, a couple of decades ago and was changed. Letjusticeroll I also sat under Dr. Perkins teaching for part of my doctoral studies in leadership.  His most lasting work has been the pioneering of Christian Community Development Associations around the country www.ccda.org , working for evangelism, discipleship, racial reconciliation, justice, and education in impoverished communities.  Today, he was the keynote speaker to open our annual denominational gathering (General Assembly), which is in Deetroit, Rock City this year.

I lost the copious notes I took(arrgh), but here are a few quotes from today's talk as I remember them:

"You can't have justice without mercy or vice versa.  Justice and mercy are doing the waltz and can't be separated."

"If someone says 'I'll pray for you,' I pick up my hat and walk out the door.  That means they ain't going to do nothing.  We need to recapture authentic prayer.  Prayer is not a substitute for action, it is preparation for action."

"Racism is not a matter of ignorance, its a matter of greed and domination."

"The middle class church has lost an accurate view of suffering.  In the Bible, suffering is a virtue."

"The Presbyterian church doesn't act according to faith, but according to the budget.  We only make decisions according to the facts.  Instead people who serve the living God - we make the facts.  Budget will follow."

Sorry, he said some much more powerful and prophetic things, directed at the heart of suburban Christians like me, but I can't quote them without my notes.  I was challenged and encouraged at the same time, to be more like Christ and less a product of my culture.

Takeaway? I am so excited God has led Michael Flake to be Lake Forest's director of mission, with the strategic priority of engaging our church with the needs of our city.  It is time for us to more fully  live up to our calling to love the poor, do justice, and be ministers of reconciliation between people living at odds with one another.  Three years ago, I began saying that our core value of 'loving the poor' was our most unrealized original aspiration as a church.  Now as a ten year old church, we've made strides locally (we've always done this well internationally).  For example, we turn our building into a homeless shelter for days or a whole week at a time multiple times per year.  Another example - we've participated in the formation of the HELP network - a group of diverse congregations advocating, in unity, for power and resource decisions in our area to take justice for the least into account.

But we are not yet engaged relationally and massively, as a whole people of faith, with communities in great need in metro-Charlotte.  When I say relationally, I mean in partnerships where we learn and benefit and grow from our interaction with those different from us, even while we construct some tangible, long-term good for a community in crisis.  When Micah tell us, "He has shown thee, oh man, what is good: To love mercy, to do justice, and to walk humbly with your God" (Micah 6:8), I think Lake Forest is doing WELL at walking humbly with God, doing OKAY at loving mercy (charitable acts), and doing THE MINIMUM at doing justice (engaging systems that favor the strong over the weak, the rich over the poor).  Time to get better at those last two, for the sake of joy, to the glory of God.

June 18, 2009

The Open Table: I'm Looking for 10 by Monday!

Hey - next Monday (June 22 at 7pm @ LFC) I'm starting an OPEN TABLE GROUP with a couple of new friends of mine interested in talking more about God, in an open manner.  I"m looking for 10 total people (only 8 spots left) who are at a point of spiritual exploration, trying to figure out what they/you believe about God/Jesus/faith.

Each person will get The Open Table, a new book by LFC friend Donald Miller (author of Blue Like Jazz, who is hopefully speaking at LFC in the fall, by the way).  He wrote this for people like himself - people not sure about their faith, who find themselves more comfortable taking a walk outside than going to church.  After the group is established a few weeks, we'll try to line up an internet chat with Don about how the group is going, in late July or early August.  He gave us these copies to help him experiment with how to best use them to help people explore God-questions.

Opentable Here's a link to Don's site with his thoughts about the book and the mojo of the group http://www.jointheopentable.com/

So - if this group is for you, belly up to the table (we'll meet June 22, July 13 and 20, then go from there, at LFC).  Post a comment on the blog here, or email spowell@lakeforest.org with questions or to invite yourself or a friend to the group.  If you know someone at LFC, or not at LFC, who would benefit from this group, please invite them.

June 17, 2009

God-Stories

This week at VBS, kids are being asked the question 'where did you see God today?' We want to help them develop the lens of faith that sees the goodness, greatness, and beauty of the LORD everywhere, all the time.  Not just in church, not just in my heart.  But in everything, everyone.  "They joyfully celebrate your abundant goodness...The LORD is good to all; he has compassion on all he has made.  All your works praise you. LORD; your faithful people extol (say good things about) you." Psalm 145:7-10.  Here is super-crew-leader Sammi asking her crew where they saw God today:Godstories

June 16, 2009

Silly String at Church

This week, i get to see a bunch of my heroes daily.  the leaders of our Vacation Bible School are my heroes - especially the crew leaders.  Giving 4 hours a day, for one week of precious summer, to be a caring/fun adult friend in the life of a child, telling them about the love of Jesus.  Here's a picture of the silly string game today. below is a picture of a silly crew.Sillystringatvbs

I am in the role of 'okee dokee from okeefenokee,' leading the Swampland Games.  So i get to see up close how these leaders - one leader to 6 children, 530 children in all - are:

"making my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind."  What mind is that? to "do nothing out of selfish ambition..rather in humility, value others above yourslelves' and 'in your relationships' with the children at VBS 'have the same attitude of mind Christ Jesus had..by taking the very nature of a servant." (Philippians 2:2-7, loosely)

Yes, our VBS has awesome sights, sounds, characters, games, music, dancing, drama, snacks and general hilarity.  But the real deal, as in all ministry, is the arcing of the Holy Spirit from one person to the other through relationship.  As Marcy our children's pastor says, 'the first Jesus some of these children will know will be the Jesus they see in you.'  Which applies to all of life - what a privilege and what fulfillment to live this way all the time!

My prayer for our VBS leaders this morning?  that by putting on the attitude of Jesus for this week and serving children in the name of Jesus, that such a 'ministry/other-centered' mindest might become more habitual (i'm praying this for my middle school son who is a crew leader and doing a great job).  and therefore their joy would be increased all the time.Sillygroupatvbs

Wow - i love this week!